Sex is an art

Reconnect with your body, desire and pleasure.

Sexology and somatic coaching for a deeper connection with your body, desire and pleasure.

Explore your sexuality, understand your desire and reconnect with pleasure in a safe, non-judgemental space - at your own pace, with my guidance.

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Feeling distant from your body or your desire is more common than you think.

It is not a personal failure. Many of us learned to keep desire quiet, to switch off sensation or to perform instead of feel. Let's explore what may be getting in the way of your pleasure.

This work may be for you if...

  • You feel disconnected from your body.
  • You struggle to access pleasure or fully enjoy it.
  • Your desire feels distant, quiet or difficult to access.
  • You find it difficult to communicate what you want.
  • You feel comfortable performing sexuality, but disconnected from experiencing it.
  • You want to explore your sexuality without shame or judgement.

What we can explore

Desire

Understanding what awakens, blocks or changes your desire.

Body

Learning to notice sensations, boundaries and pleasure.

Sexuality

Exploring beliefs, shame, conditioning and patterns.

Relationships

Building new ways of communicating and negotiating your needs.

Pleasure

Moving from performing sexuality to actually experiencing it through your body.

My method

How we work

  1. 01 — BodyArrive in your body.

    We begin by slowing down and paying attention to what is actually happening in your body - sensations, emotions, tension, desire, discomfort and pleasure. Through body awareness and simple somatic practices, you can learn to recognise your body's signals and reconnect with sexuality as something you experience, not something you have to perform.

  2. 02 — DesireListen to your desire.

    We explore the difference between what you think you should want and what you actually want. Together, we put words to your desires, boundaries, needs and curiosities - creating space to understand your sexuality without judgement or pressure.

  3. 03 — IntegrationBring it into your life.

    The work doesn't end when the session does. We translate what you discover into your everyday life through simple practices, reflections and new ways of relating to yourself, your relationships and your sexuality - so that what you explore becomes something you can actually live.

For erotic content creators

Sexuality behind the camera

You create desire for an audience. But what happens to your own relationship with sexuality?

I offer specialised support for erotic content creators, a space to explore:

  • Rebuild your relationship with your body - understand your boundaries and desire, and reconnect with pleasure instead of performing it.
  • Own your sexuality on your own terms - develop a sexuality that feels authentic to you, beyond the expectations of your audience or your content.
  • Recover your sensuality - reconnect with the body's ability to sense, feel and experience pleasure after overstimulation.
  • Separate personal sexuality from content creation - create healthier boundaries between your work, your body, your desire and your private life.
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What to expect

We begin by understanding what brings you here, what you are experiencing and what you would like to understand, change or explore.

From there, we may work through conversation, body awareness, reflection and somatic practices, depending on your needs.

You set the rhythm of the process. We work from what you are experiencing and what you want to explore - not from an idea of how you should feel. The aim is for what we discover together to have a meaningful impact on your everyday life.

Sessions & prices

Erotic Content Creators Sessions

€145

Reconnect with your sexuality, understand and honour your boundaries, develop a stronger sense of self and your own relationship with desire, and explore the experience of performing sexuality online without losing connection with yourself.

Online session · 60 minutes.

Specialised method and personalised between-session support.

Individual Sessions

€85

For reconnecting with your body, desire and pleasure.

Online session · 60 minutes.

Couples Sessions

€115

For exploring desire, communication and intimacy together.

Online session · 60 minutes.

Prefer to pay by bank transfer?

You can also pay by bank transfer. Please include the session type and your name as the payment reference, and send your receipt to confirm your booking.

Direct transfer (SEPA, EUR)

Account name
Magic Wasabi LTD
IBAN
NL09 YOUR 0319 9441 66

International wire (SWIFT)

Only if a direct transfer isn't possible from your country.

Beneficiary
Stichting Custodian Yoursafe
Bank
Rabobank, Utrecht, Netherlands
Account number
NL18 RABO 0323 9242 47
BIC / SWIFT
RABONL2U
Reference (required)
NL09 YOUR 0319 9441 66

For SWIFT transfers, that reference code must be included exactly as shown, or the payment can't be matched to your account.

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My story

I've always been curious about what makes me feel truly alive: our bodies, our desires, our relationships and the stories we carry about ourselves.

My path began in communication. I studied Audiovisual and Corporate Communication, and I felt something essential was missing: a real connection with my own body. That search led me to yoga, breathwork and energy work.

For five years I worked as an erotic content creator. That experience showed me, first-hand, the difference between performing sexuality and actually experiencing it.

I then completed a Master's Degree in Sexology at INCISEX to give what I had lived a deeper framework. Today I combine sexology with somatic coaching, breathwork and body awareness to help people reconnect with their bodies, understand their desire and explore their sexuality from their own truth.

Any doubt?

Frequently asked questions

What is sexology?

Sexology is the study of human sexuality across its different dimensions. We can explore your identity, desire and practices, body and pleasure, and the way you relate to others and build intimacy.

You don't need to have a sexual problem to work with a sexologist. It can also be a space to understand yourself better, explore your desire, or find a way of experiencing your sexuality that feels more authentic to you.

What is somatic coaching?

Somatic coaching is based on the connection between body, mind and experience.

Our bodies hold memory, and our experiences can be reflected in the way we breathe, tense, feel and relate to others.

Through body awareness, mindfulness, breathwork and practices such as TRE, we can learn to listen to the body and work with tension and nervous system activation.

The intention is not to force the body, but to learn to listen to its signals and access aspects of our experience that we cannot always reach through talking alone.

How do sexology and somatic coaching work together?

Sexology helps us understand what is happening in your sexuality.

The somatic approach allows us to explore how you experience it in your body.

Together, we can work through understanding and conversation, while also paying attention to sensations, breathing, boundaries, desire and your embodied experience.

Do I need to have a problem to work with you?

No.

You may come because you are experiencing a specific difficulty, but you may also want to understand your desire better, reconnect with your body, explore pleasure, improve your relationships or experience your sexuality in a more conscious way.

Sometimes we know that something has changed, that we feel disconnected, that our desire no longer feels the same, or that we want to experience our sexuality differently, but we don't yet know why.

We can start precisely from there.

Is this therapy?

My work is based on sexological counselling and somatic coaching, rather than psychotherapy, medical or psychiatric care.

If a situation requires specialised support from another professional, it may be appropriate to work alongside them or make a referral.

What happens during a session?

Each session is adapted to what you are experiencing and what you want to explore.

We may work through conversation, reflection, body awareness, mindfulness, breathwork and other somatic practices.

You set the pace, and you never have to take part in a practice that doesn't feel right for you.

How do you work with couples?

I work with a specific methodology for couples designed to create clear progress around sexuality, communication and sexual intercourse.

An important part of the process is reducing pressure and excessive mental activity so that the body can regain its natural responses.

It can be useful when working with difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, anxiety around sexual encounters or performance pressure, among others.

The work also includes communication and boundaries, negotiation within the relationship, and developing new ways of relating to each other.

The aim is not to force the body to function, but to create the conditions for sexual responses to develop with greater naturalness, connection and enjoyment.

Do you work with erotic content creators?

Yes.

I offer specialised support to explore the relationship between body, desire, identity and sexuality when sexuality is part of your work.

We can work on boundaries with your audience, overstimulation, desire outside of work, your relationship with your body, separating personal sexuality from content creation, and the difference between performing sexuality and actually experiencing it.

We can also explore reconnecting with your body's natural sensuality and developing a more conscious and grounded relationship with your body image.

This work is also informed by my own five years of experience as an erotic content creator.

Are sessions online and which languages do you work in?

Yes. All sessions are online.

I work primarily in Spanish and English.

I also understand Portuguese perfectly and have a high level of comprehension in Italian, although sessions are primarily conducted in Spanish or English.

How can I pay?

You can pay online when booking your session or by bank transfer, following the instructions available on the sessions page.

Can I cancel or reschedule my session?

Yes, according to the Cancellation Policy.

Is what we discuss confidential?

Privacy and respect for your information are fundamental to the process. Please see the Privacy Policy for more information about how your personal data is handled.

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