Sandra FortezaSexology & Somatic Coaching
Sex is an art

Reconnect with your body, desire and pleasure.

Sexology and somatic coaching can help you feel more connected to your body and your sexuality, better understand your desire and recover your ability to feel pleasure from a place that is authentic, safe and non-judgmental, always respecting your own rhythm.

A private, non-judgmental space to explore sexuality, desire and the body.

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Feeling distant from your body or your desire is more common than you think.

It is not a personal failure. Many of us learned to keep desire quiet, to switch off sensation or to perform instead of feel. Let's explore what may be getting in the way of your pleasure.

This work may be for you if...

  • You feel disconnected from your body.
  • You struggle to access pleasure.
  • Your desire has become silent.
  • You find it difficult to communicate what you want.
  • You feel comfortable performing sexuality, but disconnected from experiencing it.
  • You want to explore your sexuality without shame or judgement.

What we can explore

Desire

Understanding what awakens, blocks or changes your desire.

Body

Learning to notice sensations, boundaries and pleasure.

Sexuality

Exploring beliefs, shame, conditioning and patterns.

Relationships

Building new ways of communicating and negotiating your needs.

Pleasure

Moving from performing sexuality to actually experiencing it through your body.

My method

How we work

  1. 01 — BodyArrive in your body.

    We begin by paying attention to what is happening in your body — sensations, emotions, tension, openness, discomfort and pleasure. Through body awareness and simple somatic practices, you can learn to recognise what your body is communicating and develop a more conscious relationship with it.

  2. 02 — DesireListen to your desire.

    Put words to what you feel and want, without judgement.

  3. 03 — IntegrationBring it into your life.

    Simple practices to carry this into your days, relationships and work.

For erotic content creators

Sexuality behind the camera

You create desire for an audience. But what happens to your own sexuality?

I offer specialized support for erotic content creators, a space to explore:

  • Rebuild your relationship with your body - understand your boundaries and desire, and reconnect with pleasure instead of performing it.
  • Own your sexuality from your chosen identity - develop a sexuality that feels authentic to you, beyond the expectations of your audience or your content.
  • Recover your sensuality - reconnect with the body's ability to sense, feel and experience pleasure after overstimulation.
  • Separate personal sexuality from content creation - create healthier boundaries between your work, your body, your desire and your private life.
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Sessions & prices

For Erotic Content Creators

€145

Reconnecting with sexuality, understand and honour your boundaries, build identity, own your desire and work through the overall experience of performing sexuality online.

Specialized method and personalized between-session support.

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For Individuals

€85

For reconnecting with your body, desire and pleasure.

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For Couples

€115

For exploring desire, communication and intimacy together.

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Yoursafe
Account holder
Magic Wasabi LTD
IBAN
NL79 YOUR 0319 9441 66

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What to expect

We begin by understanding what brings you here, what you are experiencing and what you would like to change or understand.

From there, we may work through conversation, body awareness, reflection and somatic practices, depending on your needs.

You set the rhythm of the coaching. We will work from what it feels like when something in your life no longer feels right, not from my perception of it. The change will be felt in the way you relate to yourself, your body and your sexuality.

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My story

I've always been curious about what makes me feel truly alive: our bodies, our desires, our relationships and the stories we carry about ourselves.

My path began in communication. I studied Audiovisual and Corporate Communication, and I felt something essential was missing: a real connection with my own body. That search led me to yoga, breathwork and energy work.

For five years I worked as an erotic content creator. That experience showed me, first-hand, the difference between performing sexuality and actually experiencing it.

I then completed a Master's Degree in Sexology at INCISEX to give what I had lived a deeper framework. Today I combine sexology with somatic coaching, breathwork and body awareness to help people reconnect with their bodies, understand their desire and explore their sexuality from their own truth.

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